Signs you are dating the wrong guy
Before I met my prince of a husband, I dated this guy I can't even think about for two seconds without cringing. We went on a cruise together and not only did I pay my own way, but I also bought my own drinks. Then he started dropping clues that I wasn't his type at all. I can find all sorts of ways to justify staying with him — we took cool trips, we did adventurous things like rappelling and mountain biking, but the relationship drained my spirit. Worse, I never seized my moment to let him know he’s a colossal cad and that I deserve to be treated better.
Sometimes, even the most perfect people are not right for you. You don’t think they’d understand and worse, accept you the way you are. Some people just don’t connect on a mental level and there’s nothing you can do about it. You’ve been with them for a really long time now but you still think you don’t know anything about them. They’ve been trying to mould you into the person they want you to be and you’ve been obliging only with the hope of being loved but you don’t like what you’re becoming. You’ve been so caught up in resolving conflicts and arguments since forever; the romance has almost ceased to exist! As much as you want it to work, at the back of your mind you already know the future isn’t too bright either. And there’s only so much you can do to make a person trust you. It is not always that a relationship fails because the other person is emotionally unavailable. They’re a little too needy and tend to totally depend on you for their survival.
We could talk a great deal on when to date, if to date, and how to date, and I’ve written and spoken on that subject numerous times over the last decade. There is a frequent need to make excuses for his behavior. If there is a common consensus among family and friends that this may not be the right guy for you, this may not be the right guy for you. If you feel the need to keep secrets about your relationship – whether the content of the relationship or its existence at all – that’s a red flag. There are many other warning signs that one may be dating Mr. She has a passion to see the women of God live free and impactful lives.
Dating is probably the subject I’m asked about most often, because let’s face it, most of us want to be in love, one day walking down the aisle, securing our forever mate. However, when the desire for that becomes too great, I’ve found that single ladies can get into significant trouble. It is normal to have a bad day, where we are tired, overworked, hungry, or maybe have had a series of events that have led to a bad mood. If you feel the need to be dishonest about him as a person, that’s a red flag. For more information, visit Today's role for a Christian woman takes many forms working together - mom, sister, wife, home maker, career women, and more.
Some things are cute, but some things are just a straight no. Especially when you see him fumbling over the salt shaker, and mopping his brow with his biggest effort at discretion. But what do you do when he sticks two long fingers deep into the crevices of his mouth, and produces a shrill infernal noise that could have you turning into a shade of red that could put the tomatoes in your salad to shame? Having a commanding personality is good, kicking people around is a donkey’s job.
If you’re wondering whether you’re dating the wrong guy, use these signs and you’ll have the answer in no time. Of course, everyone gets nervous during their first date. We’re just talking about his communication skills here, strictly word-to-word. [Read: 12 dating rules for classy men and women] #8 WTF is with his humor? What are you supposed to do with a guy who thinks he’s so funny, and pulls wise ones off about you, your mom, your dad, your little dog, your pals, and about your little ‘secret garden’!